Hidden Emotions

Hidden emotions may be revealed in the guise of other symptoms  that may include:

 Expressions of psychosomatic illnesses, such as depression, lethargy, headaches, tightness in throat, and gastric disturbances

 Sleeplessness

 Poor appetite

 Impatience

 Inability to concentrate

 Severe mood swings

 Irritability

 Impaired personal and professional relationships

Neglected feelings can lead to:

 High staf   turnover

 Loss of work days

 Decreased morale and poor attitude

 Delivery of diminished services

 Uncaring or callous attitude toward animals

Pathologies of Transactive Memory

Perhaps  the most  obvious  failure of trans  active memory  would occur  if  it never got started. Intimacy could  not develop in a  relationship if  the couple never talked, if their initial  personal  knowledge  stores  were  so disjunctive that they had no common  ground  to discuss,  or if  they  could find no way  to put together  their ideas  into new, group-generated  thoughts.  In terms of our theoretical analysis, then, intimacy could  fail because  of a  lack of trans  active processes,  a  lack of higher-order  linkages  that  would  allow  differentiation, or a  lack of  common lower-order  knowledge  stores  that would allow integration. Once a relationship has formed,  the processes  of communication,  differentiation, and  integration  must  continue. We suspect  that communication.  will halt in an ongoing partnership, bringing  that  partnership  to  an end, when a  gross imbalance  occurs between  the processes  of differentiation and  integration.

Globalization

In its broadest sense, globalization refers to the extension of a whole range of economic, cultural and political activities across the world landscape. Globalization can be defined as the intensification of worldwide social relations which link distant localities in such a way that local happenings are shaped by events occurring many miles away and vice versa. In this context, the increasing economic and cultural interdependence of societies on a world scale is of particular interest. Because it involves interaction in so many areas and at numerous levels, it is virtually impossible to conceive of globalization as a singular concept. There are many “globalizations” occurring in various sectors and fields of activity, including telecommunications, finance and culture.

BEHAVIORAL DEFINITIONS

1. Avoids displeasing or angering the partner at all costs (e.g., misses classes or work, stops socializing with friends, or yields control of personal time and money to partner).

2. Feels intimidated by interactions with partner leading to pervasive worry, anxiety, and/or fear.

3. Attempts to control others and the environment to prevent anything  that could serve as a catalyst for the partner’s anger/violence.

4. Experiences feelings of inadequacy, guilt, and shame in reaction to the partner’s constant criticism, belittling comments, and/or demeaning demands.

5. Feels invisible and/or unworthy because ideas, interests, and needs are ignored or dismissed by the partner.

6. Excuses the partner’s abusive  physical and sexual behavior and blames self for creating a situation in which the  partner could not control rage and violent impulses.

7. Sustains physical injuries at  the hands of the partner and lies to medical personnel and friends about the origin of the injuries.

8. Isolates self from family, friends, and campus personnel due to feelings of embarrassment and fear.

9. Believes that it is impossible to leave the relationship due to financial, emotional, and/or social dependence on the partner.

10. Believes that it is impossible to leave the relationship due to the partner’s threats of physical violence, death, and/or suicide.